✦ The Grace of Letting Go ✦

A Personal Essay by Lojain | Roya ElMedia ✦ Introduction: The Quiet Art of Trusting Life We grow up being told to dream big . To visualize success , to chase timelines , and to make things happen . We are taught that ambition is everything, and planning is the key to achievement. So we try. We map out our futures like architects of fate. We make vision boards, color-coded planners, and life checklists that we expect the universe to follow. But as we grow… We start to notice something. Life doesn’t care about our calendars. It doesn’t follow our schedules, our spreadsheets, or our perfect little boxes. It moves in spirals, in seasons, in sacred detours. It answers in silence, in delay, in redirection. And the older I get, the more I’ve realized that life isn’t something we control — it’s something we trust. Some of the most important things in my life didn’t happen when I wanted them to. They happened when I was ready. And I didn’t even know I was ready until I looked ba...